Tuesday 21 June 2011

Why Porn Sex is Bad Sex

Swinging Teens Swiniging Locals For many years I had a sexual style love similar to what I had seen in porn. In fact, this type of sex was like how I learned to masturbate as a teen. I practiced a sexual style of fast and vigorous and thought that this was the real key to great sex.
However, all this changed when I attended a sexuality workshop. At this workshop, 30 women described how they really liked sex.
Now, just about all the men had a big shock as they found what they generally liked was considered bad sex
Gee, over 90% of the women said they liked sex to be slow and connected, or used similar expressions. And only a few described porn style sex as their favorite style of sexuality. So it seemed that porn style is is bad sex.
Now as a qualified sexologist, I get to talk to a lot of ladies about sex. I really have looked into what women really want in sex. Most women still liked a high intensity sexual experience now and then.
But what they really wanted was most times an emotional connection with their lover they made love.
So from my research and the nice homework I have done over the years, what are some tips for guys to make love in this connected way.
  • Open your eyes and feel into your lover when making love. See if you can become more sensitive and feel her orgasmic energy in your body. Eyes open sex can be challenging for some, but the rewards are feeling more in tune with your lover and more love flowing.